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Dinner in Paris . . . So Much Better Than I Imagined!

August 15, 2018 2 Comments

Dinner in Paris . . . So Much Better Than I Imagined!

A few years ago, I rented a room in Paris at the apartment of an American acquaintance. The apartment was also rented to a young French woman and her baby. After a full day of work and taking care of her son, Valerie went into the kitchen to start cooking dinner. “May I help?” I asked. “Non,” she said with a smile. “It is nothing.”

I watched from the doorway as she put on a pot of water to boil and then placed some mushrooms, a little garlic, and some fresh herbs in a large frying pan to brown. Wasting no time, she cleaned the lettuce, made a simple vinaigrette, and sliced the bread. She took out a plate and arranged an assortment of crudités.

Turning her attention back to the mushrooms, she stirred the mixture and lowered the heat. She took a box from the cabinet, placed some fettuccini in the pot of boiling water, and proceeded to open the package of meat she had picked up at the butcher.

The pans on the small stovetop were adjusted to fit one more skillet. The flame on high, a little olive oil added, and the escalopes de veau were searing in the pan. She took the cheese from above the refrigerator and unwrapped it. Smiling, she said, “It should be perfect”.

Once again she turned her attention to the stove, flipped the veal over, drained the fettuccini, and added it to the pan of mushrooms. Then some crème fraiche, a little salt, and ground fresh pepper. Making room in the large skillet, she transferred the veal to the side, lowered the heat, and covered the pan to finish cooking.

Picking up the platter of crudités and basket of bread, she announced, “C’est prêt.” Dinner was ready. We ate and talked in a slow, relaxed manner that could only happen when there is nowhere else to be. After finishing with the cheese and salad, instead of feeling full, I felt satisfied.

“Some dessert and café?,” Valerie asked, as she placed two slices of fruit tart on the table. She laughed when she saw my expression. “Non, non, I picked it up over the weekend at the patisserie when I was visiting my parents. They make such good tarts that I couldn’t resist.”

Dinner was delicious, remarkably elegant in its simplicity. The ease Valerie had in the kitchen amazed me.

“Where did you learn to cook?” I asked.

“At home,” she replied, a little surprised by the question. She had grown up eating well and never considered cooking to be difficult. Quite the contrary, it was natural. 

Taking the time to cook and savor the meal are at the core of what makes the French lifestyle so enjoyable. Whenever I think of Valerie and her ease in the kitchen, I’m inspired and reminded that the ritual of cooking and eating feeds not only the body, but also the soul. 

What about you? What do YOU do or make that feeds YOUR soul?

2 Responses

Adeline Olmer
Adeline Olmer

August 16, 2018

Cheryl, I know what you mean about stressing when you have guests. I love to entertain, but it’s no fun if I’m under pressure. It’s taken me years to get over that so it can be done with foolproof recipes.
I love growing vegetables! I find nothing better than eating them fresh from my garden. I also enjoy growing other plants and flowers, but I don’t know enough about them to create what I want yet. I’m not giving up.


August 16, 2018

loved the cooking story! altho i love to cook- i do stress when its for guests. I guess ill have to channel some french attitude next dinner party! altho i enjoy cooking as well- grading is a passion that i find extremely rewarding-especially this time of year!

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